Ask KidsPrivacy: How can I turn off chat on Clash of Clans

talking digital logoKids love online games and many games allow players to message one another. In both, Trivia Crack and Clash of Clans, kids can send messages back and forth just like texting. Recently, I received a question about turning this feature off in Clash of Clans. On most games, players cannot turn off messaging but some allow players to hide chat, block players and report inappropriate messages.

Q: How can I disable chat on clash of clans?

clash clans more chatA: The short answer is you cannot. The chat window is initially closed and off to the left of the screen. When your child is playing Clash of Clans, they can open the chat window and chat with any player on global chat or just with their clan on Clan Chat. Global Chat and Clan Chat are different. Every player can access Global Chat and it is moderated. Here, comments are filtered to remove offensive language and they can report or mute players who post inappropriate messages.clash clans report player

In Clan Chat, it is up to the clan leaders whether the chat is moderated or has any restrictions. Clash of Clans is for players over 13 and adults do play this game. Depending on the clan, kids can expect to see swearing and some trash talking among clan members. Some clans do have rules of conduct and will kick members out who violate them. These clans usually require approval before a player can join.

To eliminate clan chat, players can choose not to join a clan. Without a clan, they can still play but will be unable to join forces with other players to launch clan wars and share resources.  Another alternative is to form their own clan and play with friends. Remember, friends can also share inappropriate messages. If they are playing with friends, parents should talk to them about setting ground rules for messaging each other.

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Game Console or Tablet on your Child’s Holiday List

How to make a new device kid friendly

christmas presentThis holiday, many kids will discover elves have expanded their toy making enterprise to include all sorts of electronics. In our house, my youngest has high hopes that his first device is under the tree. Honestly, I am excited to give him his first electronic present but I am also a bit uneasy. The internet is a big place. I want him to have freedom to explore but I also want to keep him out of adult areas. Thankfully, setting up these devices to make them kid friendly is becoming easier.

If a new game console or tablet is on your child’s holiday list, I have compiled a list of resources for how to set up parental controls on these devices. These controls are important, especially for young kids. The internet is an all age’s venue and if a child is not ready for an R rated movie, they are not ready for unlimited access to the world wide web. However, controls alone will not teach kids digital life skills. After setting controls, take some time to slip in an online safety PSA or create a device contract. If you are feeling a bit unease navigating the digital world, you may want to include Talking Digital: Tips and Scripts for Parenting in the Digital World on your holiday list.



For setting controls on game consoles, ESRB is a one-stop shop. Here, parents will find information on how to set parental controls for many popular consoles. If you are a visual learner, the ESRB also has a video series on YouTube that walks you through how to  set parental controls on the Xbox OnePlayStation 4, and WiiU. One of the best ways to teach kids about playing responsibly is to play together. To find age appropriate games for the whole family, check out CommonSenseMedia and the ESRB for ratings and reviews.


For tablets, parental controls vary widely even within a family of devices. Below are links to how to set up parental controls for some popular tablets.


Parents should set restrictions on the iPad itself and on the iTunes account. First, parents can go to “Settings” then “General” to set limits on the device. Here, parents will see a list of features and apps they can turn on or off. For example, parents can turn off Safari to eliminate web searching. If you want to allow some internet, parents can also activate safe search within Safari.  BeWebSmart has an excellent article on how to set up safe search for kids. Second, parents should also set restrictions on their iTunes account to limit inapp purchases. Parents can do this by requiring a passcode for every purchase.

If the latest iPad with IOS 8 is on your holiday list, parents can set up family sharing on their apple devices. Family sharing lets family members access each other’s books, music and apps and allows parents to set limits on what children can buy and download. Family sharing is another great tool but does not replace setting up parental controls on individual devices.


Amazon Kindle Fire allows parents to set parental controls using Amazon FreeTime. The Kindle FreeTime app lets parents choose which books, videos, and apps a child has access to. The FreeTime app is not only for content. Parents can also set limits on screen time and set educational goals such as 30 minutes of reading a day. With a new Kindle Fire, parents receive Kindle FreeTime Unlimited free for a year. This is basically prime for kids. Kids have access to free books, games and shows based on their age.

Android Tablets (Samsung, Nexus etc.)

The parental controls available for these devices depends on the manufacturer. Some controls are more robust than others. Given this variability, parents may want to go with a free app designed to make a tablet kid friendly. Tom’s Guide reviews many popular parental controls apps. If you want to play with the controls available on the device, GeekSquad walks parents through how to make an android tablet kid friendly.

Windows Surface

Microsoft has Family Safety Controls for their PCs and Tablets. I found the best explanation for how to set these up at GottabeMobile. Parents have a lot of options for how to tailor these controls. They can choose what sites kids can visit, whether to restrict online communications and how much time kids can spend online. If sharing a tablet, parents can set up accounts for each child.